Beautiful ways to say: “I love you!”
Confession of love these days
We all understand that the times of beautiful ladies and brave knights are long gone. Romantic stories about the battles for beauties remained only in art. However, to get upset or think about how good it was before, when young people fought for the attention of the girl they liked for months, if not for years, not worth it. And she, the beautiful, only chose.
Imagine another situation. A young girl lives to herself, to which only young people pay attention, who do not find a response in her heart. And those who like it, do not pay attention to it. What do you think, what is she like? A few centuries ago, a girl could not even be the first to hint about her feelings, let alone admit to a young man or someone from her environment. Suffice it to recall Tatyana’s well-known letter to Onegin, her shame for this recognition and the possible general censure of this act. A novel describes the action of the 19th century.And what happened before?
Therefore, do not be sad about modern girls and complain about the absence of princes or knights. Any representative of the beautiful half of humanity now has a choice. Did you like the young man? You can always go to him to meet, you can also tell about the feelings of someone with whom you have long been familiar. No one will condemn such actions and will not attribute them to being too intrusive.
If there is a person in your life whom you love, then the question of how to confess your love to a guy is very relevant. It will depend on many factors:
- How old is the young man?
- How old are you?
- Can you say important words beautifully and not be embarrassed?
In addition, much depends on the relationship within the couple. If you have been together for a long time and that very moment has come when you want to hear a confession in reply, then only one word is required. If you want to make a declaration of love to a guy with whom you have friendly or business relations, then the situation is slightly different.But first things first.
If you are strangers
Such situations often happen when a girl loves a young man “in absentia”, without personal acquaintance, without communication, without all the other attributes of relationships (love, friendship, business).This situation is complicated by the fact that the beloved is often endowed with those worthy qualities that he does not possess. So, Vasya's neighbor or classmate Serezha may seem strong, intelligent, interesting, cheerful, until ... until you meet him personally. You feel in love, suffer from longing and longing for a person about whom you know something from personal observations or from the words of others. In such a situation, it is necessary to confess to a guy in love, yet think of a way to get to know him personally.
You can start to attend the same sports section, go to the same extra classes. And then it is enough to start a conversation, say a few words - and you are already familiar. After that, you can invite a new acquaintance to the cinema or for a walk, which will allow you to begin a closer conversation. It is important to make a stranger or a correspondence friend - a real one! So it will be easier to understand whether there is a place for love, whether the guy suits you and whether you will be interested in together.
If you are a romantic person, you can try and send a letter with recognition to the guy without dating. In the letter, you can specify a meeting place, if the young man would be interested to find out in whose heart the love for him glows.
If you are familiar, but not yet a couple
Very often, a love for someone from the strong half of humanity among acquaintances or friends lives in a girl's heart. This may be a classmate, friend, colleague, neighbor. An important condition - personal acquaintance and easy communication. That is, you can spend time together or in a company, but do not consider yourself a couple. In this case, honest recognition in words is perfect.
Try to choose a suitable day when the young man is in excellent mood and say that they are in love.
If you are a couple, but have not yet confessed to each other
This situation is often remembered by the famous heroine of the series “Sex and the City” Kerry Bradshaw, who was awaiting recognition from the man of her dreams, but could not stand it and was the first to admit to feeling, waiting for the response words. And the response words did not follow for a long period of time.
All cases are individual. But the most optimal is the situation when you are at the right moment (at a joint dinner, while walking, watching your favorite movie) say the words:
"I love you!"
Then you can focus on the recognition, so that the guy does not miss his ears, saying:
“And it's true!” Or “And I'm not kidding!”
As a rule, there is often a reciprocal confession from a guy. If the response words did not follow, then it is best to give the beloved time to think. Wait a few days, maybe a week, and then repeat the confession by asking:
"And what do you feel?"
So you dot the "and" and understand what the second half is experiencing for you and whether it is experiencing at all.
Interesting methods of love recognition
If you decide not to be limited to standard methods, and you want this moment to be remembered for a long time, then the following methods will help you confess your love in a beautiful and original way. Regardless of how old you and your loved one are, show a little imagination - and you will succeed in making recognition not only beautiful and original, but also unusual - so that you remember!
- SMS. Send SMS - it's easy and fast. Every day we send messages of a different nature. So why not make this first recognition in this way. Naturally, everything depends on what you write in SMS.These can be simple three words written for the first time, or they can be romantic poems or something that comes from the heart. Receive such a text message is beautiful, original and very nice. Yes, and it will be relevant regardless of how old you are or how old your lover.
- Letter. A handwritten confession will be unusual if you pass on all the feelings and sensations that you experience when you meet, when you are apart, or when you think about a loved one. The difference between a letter and SMS is great, because here you put a piece of the soul, and not just press the buttons. Although here is a personal matter. The letter can be lost, and SMS will always be delivered on time. Often this method of recognition is chosen by people who have been together for many years.
- Cake / cake. A homemade dessert with a sweet love lettering is the dream of any sweet tooth. If your beloved is not indifferent to sweets, then such recognition is beautiful and original, and will also take into account his tastes and preferences.
- The inscription on the mirror. You can leave the inscription bright lipstick, writing something nice and sweet, opening your heart to a loved one.Such recognition will excite and intrigue.
- Talking toy. Such a gift will say everything for you, and you can simply enjoy the surprise of your loved one. In addition, there are toys that use a voice recorder and you can record something from yourself. The guy just one click of the button will play the record and hear the words of love. A nice bonus is that you can listen to the recognition many times and when he wants. Yes, and this method will suit everyone, regardless of how old you are and how old a guy is.
Love confession is an important stage when two lovers talk about their feelings. Pay special attention to this moment, choosing the method that will allow you to keep this moment in memory for a long time, making the recognition memorable.